We Get what we Give

This is a rant, so expect to see nastiness. Consider yourself warned.

There are people who, after failing to fulfil their role because of the choices they made, feel no qualm at taking away what the other have to supplement their inadequacy, at the cost of the other.

And to add insult to injury, they will try to justify their inadequacy by bringing you down to their level, as in, anything you have that's better than them is simply because you are lucky, not because of the choices and sacrifices you have made.

When will these people realise that it's okay for them to be inferior in some ways compared to others, that it's normal to not be superior in everything.

Seriously, live with it, it's a fact of life.

This is a rant, so treat it so. Ask no question for I am not going to elaborate beyond what's written here.






Found this unposted entry that I wrote a few months ago. It has served its purpose of being a reminder of what I felt when the incident happened, for I have no problem remembering the incident when I reread this. I think sufficient time has passed and I can post this now without anyone being the wiser.

When you are angry or upset, write down your feelings. This way you have an outlet for the negative energy and it helps you to calm down. When you are done expressing your feelings, take a deep breath and leave it for a day or two.

More often than not you will feel better the day after and be glad that you didn't succumb to the outburst of negative energy there and then in the heat of things.

We cannot take back our words, and words can hurt.