26 October 2018

Escaped (2)


Another colleague got out.

The second this year.

The first is already well on his way in his new job, I sincerely hope he is doing well.

The second will leave us in December, all the best to him as well, hope he will be happier with the new job.

And don't be a stranger.


Will I get mine?



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24 October 2018

看医生天


昨天去诊疗所看医生,其实主要是那不能断根的鸡眼又给我麻烦,但也顺便复诊几周前漱口有血的事。

因为虽然不再吐出血丝,但喉咙单边疼痛一直没好。

很爱拉着病人讲话的奶奶级医生叫我为了安全起见,还是去给专科医生看一看,以防是癌症什么的。

然后她就开始跟我讲她朋友癌症的故事…

我是那种很容易可以置身其中,跟倾述者有同感的人。天赋来的。

但有时候身为一个很好的倾听者或许也不是一件好事…

还有其它病人在等啊!停车要超时了啊!我还要快点回家继续工作的啊!

最终拿了两份转诊信就快快跑人了。

今天去看耳鼻喉专科医生,等了几个小时就诊五分钟,觉得医生草草了事。

我喉咙单边痛,觉得有伤口什么的,他却只对我敏感的鼻子有兴趣。

我从小就鼻子敏感了啦!告诉我我的喉咙什么事嘛!?!

结果他也不知道我喉咙什么事,随便做了一些猜测,给了我三种鼻子敏感的药,叫我喝多点水,要我下个星期三再复诊。

真的,现在的医院纯粹为了赚钱,再也不是健康医疗为主。

勾叉零蛋三角形!

下个星期三复诊耳鼻喉专科。

后个星期三去看皮肤专科。

看来星期三是看医生天,唉…



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21 October 2018

心的频道:双向经营


不要问我,为什么这么久没联络?

不要问我,为何对某某人比对你好?

不要问我,为何不点赞你面子书的讯息?(真的,有没有搞错?!?)

问问你自己,你是否有做那些你想要别人对你做的?

我常常对我孩子说,你要别人怎么对你,你就怎么对别人。

一段感情,友情也好、爱情也好,是要双向经营的。

不要那么的自我,什么公主王子病的。这世上,除了父母,没有人有必要对你好。

要别人对你好,你也得付出,也对别人好。不要只会受而不施。

理所当然的我们都会对那些也对我们好的人比较好。

友情是不平等的,有经常互动的、玩笑娱乐的、志同道合的,当然会比没有的较好。

只是见面嗨掰的朋友,又怎么能和天天互动玩笑的朋友关系平等呢?

真的,友情是要互相经营呵护的。



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18 October 2018

The plunge (2)


Ten days after I took the plunge.

Heard nothing thus far.

The trepidation and doubt have not reduced.

In fact, quite the contrary, because since then, another option emerged, adding to the uncertainty and apprehension.

There's a follow up on the very first option today, though it doesn't really amounted to anything concrete so far, more like a FYI.

Felt a pang of conscience when I divulged only selected bits of information, and withheld some other, for the sake of my own interest.

Self-preservation? Or have I become a duplicitous person?



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14 October 2018

Backlogs #21: Auto delete


This screenshot is dated 30th of July 2015, titled "Auto delete".

In order to somewhat control my untameable e-mail inbox, I am rather ruthless when it comes to e-mails that I deemed useless or spammy in nature, I just delete them without reading through.

Okay, some may get a quick glance through to ascertain their spammy nature before I delete them.

I also practise this in my instant messaging group, and I guess in my selective memory...

You will need to know Manglish, Mandarin and Hokkien to understand this conversation.


Auto delete and selective memory for the win! =P



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11 October 2018

心的频道:圆一个梦


今年六月九日,我订购了一辆我心目中的好车。

四个月后,十月九日那天,我终于领车了!

那四个月期间,有想过取消、换别的车什么的。

特别是等了几个月都没车,而新的消费税就要实行的那几个星期…

但还是没有看中别的车,所以硬着头皮坚持了,就给那消费税吧!

车商多个月没能给我车,额外三千多快四千的代价却还是由我承担,真的不明白现今商家的思维。

应该就是生意太好,供不应求,所以可以很大牌的不在乎少一个客人的心态吧?

讲了就气,不讲这。


开心!因为终于圆了一个梦想。

可能有些人对用钱就可以实现的梦想很不以为然。

但以我的经济能力,终于可以用自己辛苦赚来的钱买辆对我来说很贵的、喜欢的车,绝对是个有意义的梦想。

也许老来烦养老金不够时会后悔为何当初不就用一半的价钱买辆小车,省那一笔钱养老,不过就是代步工具嘛…

但现在不管先,实现了一个梦想哦,嘢!

也很大可能就是唯一一个可以实现的梦想咯。

剩下的那两个梦想,唉~



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08 October 2018

The plunge


Okay, I took the plunge.

And I have second thoughts right after.

It's probably not 'final' final yet, but a definite step.

Retractable still?

Should I?

Aiiiiih, so much doubt, so much trepidation.

Wanting a simple life is not easy at all! =(



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