08 March 2020

Random thoughts


How well we can get to know another person is about the time investment and the willingness to share.

Friendship needs nurturing, I have been saying that forever, because I truly believe that any relationship needs nurturing from all the parties involved.

Nothing should be taken for granted.

The depth or level of intimacy a relationship can achieve is about how much those in the relationship is willing to share, to expose of themselves.

That's how a relationship goes to another level, so to speak.

Let me say that again: the depth of a relationship is determined by how much those involved is willing to expose of themselves, to share with the others.

It's not just self-exposing from one party, it has to be from all parties. Since that's how trust and closeness are built.

You know, the process of getting to know someone, and for others to know more about you.

Someone in the relationship has to start that self-exposing and sharing, and if the other party reciprocates, the relationship advances. If not, the relationship stays at that level.

And suffice it to say that, this is moot if parties involved do not even bother with the time (and effort) investment to nurture the relationship.

In another word, keeping in touch is important for lasting relationship.

Else without nurturing, it would wither and fade away.



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05 March 2020

随兴随想


连续三天,下午头就会开始痛。

昨天回到家就像死尸那样躺到晚餐时间都还是头痛,晚餐后不久就去休息了。

每每精神状况不佳,又用了一整天的脑后就会这样。

应该是最近都睡得很不好的缘故,精神状况很不好。

是压力吧?

还是一样不是很会疏解压力,唉…

*****

很喜欢在面子书上看到的这句子:

三观不合,很难做朋友;
没必要讲那么多道理;
思想不在一个高度,不必互相说服。

真的。

和人生观、价值观、世界观差异太大的人,就算了吧。

人和人之间,有不同的阶级,不同的高度,不同的领悟。

酒逢知己千杯少,话不投机半句多。

要懂得取舍。

*****

也说过了,人和人之间的关系,也是有深浅轻重,有不同的阶级的。

相识的不都是朋友,有些就只是萍水之交,不曾交心。

我们不可能是大家都喜欢、都合得来的。

人生很短,不要浪费时间和精神给不值得的人。

知心好友不需多,质远远比量重要。

*****

还真的希望,近期的忙碌会开花结果。

成真的话,可会是人生一大成就。

没有想过,但既然有了机缘,还真的很期望。

我祈祷…



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02 March 2020

Filths


"Politics is the art of making your selfish desires seem like the national interest." - Thomas Sowell.

Couldn't agree more.

Bunch of circus clowns, rubbish actors and actresses, shameless liars, deceitful swindlers, treacherous cheaters, dishonest fraudsters, disloyal scammers. 

Fakers, jerks, slimeballs, lowlifes.

Criminals. 

Disgusting filths with no integrity, no moral, no conscience, no principle, no ethic.

No soul.

You are the ones who ruin the country.

What a waste of oxygen.



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28 February 2020

有感而发:没日没夜


二零二零年二月二十八日。

我除了邪恶,也自认是闲懒达人。

我尽责,但我才不要为了公司拼了命、赔了生活。

我工作为了生活,不是生活为了工作。

工作忙到没了生活,到底还有什么意思?

我不是工作狂,当我忙到没时间生活时,我会感到非常厌恶、失败、和鄙视自己。


最近工作量突然暴增,好几个案件重贴同样的时间点。

有完美主义的我不能同时交出我自己满意的业务成绩。

不够好的我不想要呈报,我有我的原则和水准。

所以我没日没夜的在工作。

又在天天工作超过十二小时了,不断优化改进我的热流模型。

每几个小时就会检查热流模拟的进展和状况,包过周末。


所以我已无法享受生活。

所以我很不爽。

厌恶、鄙视失败的自己。

有够废。



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23 February 2020

Value


Disclaimer: like all other entries in this blog, the points and perspectives in this entry are purely my own opinion.

Funny how a WhatsApp chat regarding smartphone can get the gears on my sane and logical side turning.

Smartphone, or what I like to call "mobile internet digital camera with phone (and other) function", has its camera as the main selling point nowadays.

After competing to be bigger (how is that more convenient to bring around?), now it's a competition of how many lenses on the device.

Just... ridiculous really. To me, that is.

Why is it still market as a phone is beyond me, when the phone function of the device gets little usage time compared to its other functions nowadays.

Oh well.


Regardless, people are still buying all those latest and greatest smartphones that cost (to me) an arm and a leg like the world will end without them.

That means they still find those smartphones worth their value for the asking price. They still find value for money in those products.

I think we can all agree that business is about making profit, else it's not business but charity.

It's all about profit margin, and a product's price is whatever the consumers are willing to pay for, regardless of the product cost or the actual value.

It's all about the perceived value by the consumers. Okay, and how greedy the business-owners are but we already established that business is all about profit margin.

As long as the consumers continue to buy (to the volume projected by the business-owners), the business-owners will continue to make and sell more and more expensive products. Perfectly logical business sense.


It's all down to the consumers.

The power to steer the product pricing is in the consumers' hands, but only if the mass majority has similar value for money standard, and is willing to act on it.

If the mass majority of consumers in a specific market segment refuse to buy an overpriced product, then the business-owner will need to price it accordingly in their next product or lose the market share.

But of course smart business-owners would already have done their market survey prior to launching the product.

So it still boils down to the mass majority of the consumers are either filthy rich (compared to me), or perceived there is value for money for those, to me, overpriced stuff.

Or just being what I called the white sheep.


I probably should put in another disclaimer here: that while I am doing okay (according to my own definition), I am very far from being rich by any standard. In fact, wifey believes our financial situation is shit and will become shittier if we do not migrate to some other country.

I think of those who just follow mass majority trend as the white sheep.

Some of them may not think it's value for money, but they will buy it nevertheless, just to be part of the mass. To be on the bandwagon, to be "in", so to speak.

Good thing I never have any qualm being the black sheep. I never need to be "in" if it doesn't make sense to me, if it doesn't have value for money to me.

Either I have very high standard for value for money, or I am cheap.


Also, unlike some people, my needs don't inflate with the advancement in technology.

I never have the urge to get the latest and greatest if I already have something that serves the purpose, that fulfils the need.

For example my 6 megapixel point and shoot camera serves the purpose of capturing the important moments in life when I bought it many years ago, it still serves the purpose perfectly fine nowadays.

Higher megapixel camera will get bigger resolution photos, but do I really need bigger resolution photos? Am I ever going to print those photos in poster size? Or are they just a record of event, to be viewed on computer, tablet, or television screen?

Is being able to see the wrinkles or pimples on the face important? Maybe it is to some, but not to me. I am happy with all those old photos I have, for they serve their purpose.


I have never been a materialistic person, and I have known from mingling with others that my sense of value for money is definitely not the same as the mass majority.

I am fine with that, like I said, I never have any qualm being the odd one out.

Maybe I am just mingling with the wrong 'rich' crowd, where I don't belong.



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22 February 2020

Low batt


Tired.

I think I have weathered the worst of the depression bout this time round, but energy level is still very low.

Haven't been sleeping well, that's probably the main reason.

Just kept waking up multiple times every night, don't know why.

The latest job scope being such a downgrade from the previous doesn't help.

This kind of re-organisation sucks.

Motivation and morale are low.

As of yesterday's news, yet another new job scope coming up, should be in addition to the current job scope, but anyhow this department sure changes a lot.

I know I know, the only constant is change and all that.

But changes take time, adaptation and new skill set acquirement take time.

Catching up to speed takes time, proficiency takes time.

Anyway, feel so low battery lately.

Don't like this state.

I need quality sleep, and better job scope won't hurt.



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19 February 2020

我们一起…


…喵喵喵?

不是要讲那洗脑歌啦,呵呵!


我很坦白直接的。

说过很多次了,我是邪恶的。

不要以为是谦虚什么的,我真的是邪恶的。

真的。


很习惯性的买多一条油条给同事,原因我早就跟他说过了。

都说我很坦白直接的。

就是不能只是我自己肥咯!

一定要周围的人也一起肥,相对下就没差嘛…


当然当然,反社会的我也没有那么多够近的同事可以这样直接陷害啦。

毕竟工作要保持一定的庄重规范什么的。

(而且人类很累人、很可怕的,才不要去靠近人…)

我很坦白告知我是邪恶的了,还靠近的就是准备给我害了咯。

我是这样理解的啦…

(都讲了人类很可怕的,我也承认我是邪恶的啊。)


以为我是谦虚,还是只是在讲笑,我也很无奈。

做了邪恶的事却没有人认知也是很讨厌的事咯。


嗯,不要发牢骚,就快快结束这文章吧。

记得哦,伴侣和你一起慢慢变老,邪恶的同事和你一起慢慢变胖!



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