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May contain English, Chinese, Malay, Manglish, Mandarin, Hokkien, Cantonese, l33t and/or combination of some or all the above plus some other languages, which may or may not exist thus far.CKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15973506629067528902noreply@blogger.comBlogger2054125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5860997808109629024.post-77586305977150979862024-03-28T21:17:00.000+08:002024-03-28T21:17:50.121+08:00又一团糟<div style="text-align: justify;">
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去年十一月<a href="https://paper-arrow.blogspot.com/2023/11/">分享</a>我皮毛的八字知识,还没有说到分析八字的部分,会议时间就已经完了,感觉讲了个寂寞。
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今天是上个分享的续集。为了可以充分利用会议的时间讲解分析八字的知识,于是几天前就把八字基本资料的准备方式列成简单的步骤发了给同事们,要他们在今天的分享会前准备好。
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就是上网(网址也给了)把自己的八字算出来,然后用我特地准备好的几个对照表找出自己的「日元」、「月令」、「喜用神」、「忌神」等资料。全是上一个分享会里说过的东西。
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呃,应该说是上一个分享会里用完全部时间解释的东西… 囧
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但是齁,绝大多数的同事没有准备好,所以今天又花了半个会议时间来完成这应该提前准备好的功课,唉~
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剩下的半个会议时间,我只能分享了一部分原本打算分享的东西。天!我真的不想要再有另一个八字分享会啊~
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真是的,又是一团糟,也很可能同事又会要我再做一次分享。
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怎么这东西会没完没了的?
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CKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15973506629067528902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5860997808109629024.post-76997429415466491142024-03-26T22:25:00.000+08:002024-03-26T22:25:44.201+08:00给儿子们<div style="text-align: justify;">
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在父母家人的呵护关注下飞翔飞飏的儿子们,你们活得很幸福。
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我知道你们可能不以为然,因为至今你们是在可以无忧无虑专注于学习的生活环境下长大,没有需要争取、没有需要顾及衣食住行。需要的,都已经供给了,没有需要兼顾基本生活必须,没有独自生活的经验。所以你们理所当然。
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我只能希望,你们领悟了我常说的要怀着感恩的心,而不是凡事抱怨。坦诚想一想,你们那些烦恼的来源是什么?不要自寻烦恼,做人要有分寸,很多事和物根本没有必要。懂得感恩,生活就会比较快乐好过。
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青少年的你们,已经不再是小孩子。再过几年,你们就是成年人了。很快,你们的学生生涯就会结束,然后你们就会步入社会。
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想要你们知道,男人大丈夫,就要有男人应该有的气概,的样子。请不要变成娘炮。男人大丈夫,讲到做到。男人大丈夫,敢作敢当。男人大丈夫,流血不流泪。
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说到要做到,做了就要承担。不要空嘴说白话,做不到就不要吹牛,不要满口车大炮,不要只会开空头支票。要信守承诺,要为自己的言行举止负责任。这反映你们的信用、名誉、诚信、责任感、执行力、人品和人格。不要做言而无信的人,不要变成虚伪和肤浅的人。
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要吃得起苦,要能承受些伤痛,要锻炼自己的抗压能力。不是不能流泪,哭没有错,只是不要一点皮外伤就戏剧化到天塌下来的摸样,不要一点悲痛就活不下去,不要一点挫折就放弃。没有人是靠放弃而成功的。不要变成草莓族,一碰就烂。
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要懂得向上向善,要虚心向学,不断自我提升。
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学习不是为了父母,学习是为了强大你们自己,让你们变得更厉害的一个过程。让你们可以有多点选择,有竞争力,更容易实现你们想要的生活品质。
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叛逆、摆烂最终影响的不是你的父母,而是你自己。时间不会重来,人生没有得倒带,不要失去了才后悔,因为那无济于事。把握当下,能够左右结局的时候努力,不要让自己遗憾。
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你们要喜欢上自己努力的样子、坚持的样子、尽力的样子。要喜欢上证实自己的能力、的水准,做到自己最好的那成就感。
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CKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15973506629067528902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5860997808109629024.post-44127968795576524542024-03-24T00:20:00.000+08:002024-03-24T00:20:18.335+08:00Antisocial went social (2)<div style="text-align: justify;">
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Went out to a ten persons gathering on Friday evening.
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Anything more than four is probably a no no for me nowadays, too much of a social outing.
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But for these colleague friends who had spent so much good times together, I made the exception.
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So it's braving the Friday after work traffic, which was horrible as usual, reaching the destination about two hours after I left home.
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Dinner and chat, then to karaoke.
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Karaoke, something we loved so much back in the days, still much fun and laughters this time round, but the passion was somewhat lacking. Maybe it's just me.
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The second <a href="https://paper-arrow.blogspot.com/2023/12/blog-post_28.html">Covid</a> has ruined my lung capacity. The shortness of breath has rendered me unable to sing, my voice is so weak now.
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Oh well, I still enjoy the time, just being with these people.
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CKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15973506629067528902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5860997808109629024.post-87008401267997629402024-03-20T21:55:00.000+08:002024-03-20T21:55:19.556+08:00性价比低的活<div style="text-align: justify;">
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不觉得自己没有效率,但总是有做不完的工作。我对自己的工作品质有一定的要求。
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安慰自己说这是好事,有工作总比没有工作好。太闲的工作反而会令我担心和烦躁。是的,我命贱。
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有那么多的活要做,自然而然就会分轻重,优先把时间给重要的工作,那些项目有关的正工。
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因为至今根本没有任何接触的一位外国老板要来访,突然就多了很多对我来说性价比很低的工作。
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如果我是闲着那倒也无妨,但最近有很多工要做,其他的那些活我都觉得比准备给这老板来访的东西还要重要、还有意义、更有价值。
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但是被催了又催,所以今天花了大半天在忙这活。超时工作完成了一份,还有另一份要做,唉…
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真是的,无谓的忙。
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CKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15973506629067528902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5860997808109629024.post-63464471184483146972024-03-17T21:16:00.000+08:002024-03-17T21:16:04.257+08:00寂寞寂寞就好<div style="text-align: justify;">
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是的,题目是特地的。是的,田馥甄那首歌好听。
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但不是的,这篇文章跟那首歌没有关系,而是<a href="https://paper-arrow.blogspot.com/2024/03/blog-post_15.html">上一篇文章</a>的后续。
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才刚完成的热流模型马上就因为项目改变方向而变成不相干,还没开始就已结束。
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命贱的我不甘心,既然已经用了这么多时间和精力,还几个周末加时工作那种,我怎么都要跑几个模拟,看一看散热能力是什么个究竟。
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所以昨天星期六午餐后把最后的那些设定都做完,然后让电脑过夜模拟。其实还费了蛮多工和时间来做那些设定,终于开始模拟时已经是傍晚六点。
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希望明天会看到模拟成功啦…
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这个模型花了比平时需要的时间还久,因为既不是全新设计完全任由我发挥,也不是有足够的参考资料的一个尴尬情况。
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唉… 怎么都好,终于都完成了那个热流模型,而且我还把另一个更好的散热方案也都建进模型里了。跑完原本的散热方案我就可以马上跑我那优化的方案,做直接的对比。
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我不是。我喜欢平淡简单的生活。我完全不在乎是在背后默默贡献的那位。
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我不是。我一点都不爱炫,老板知道我的贡献就好。
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But I went to a farewell lunch yesterday, because it's for my hiring manager, who has a special place in my heart, and because there were only a handful of colleague friends, all of whom I am close to.
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Colleague friends who were there when I first joined the company, who did some crazy and funny things together all those years ago that we probably can no longer do now without incurring some code of conduct infraction. Things have changed.
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现在忙着的是一个一直在改变方向的项目,几乎是每开一次会议就会有新的方向那样。真的就是很无奈,也很可能徒劳无功的忙碌。
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几乎就是每开一个项目以外的会议就会多个活要做,真的是「显」到~
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论文啦、提升电脑(来跑模拟)需要做的一些功课啦、外国老板来访要准备一大堆的东西啦、创新研究需要的模拟资料啦…
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最叫我烦心的是今天老板突然要我在外国老板来访时上台分享给整个部门的那件事,唉…
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真的就是非常万分的不想要咯。=(
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或因为相爱,所以改变了不合适的地方,变得更合适对方。
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而不是处处不合适,靠容忍一切来相爱。我根本无法想象,那样的关系怎么可能长久?
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原本是昨晚想要写篇文章上载到部落格的,但想想难得今年闰年,二月有二十九日,所以就等到今天才写了。
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其实今天也没有什么特别的事发生,就是四年才一次的二月二十九日,这样的特别而已。
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今天还有什么事呢?就随兴随想的记录些点点滴滴吧…
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农历新年后第一次回公司,主要是开会,也顺便进研究室看了下要升级的电脑的一些讯息资料。
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因为帮忙没有时间吃早餐的同事买了面包后的一个小插曲才发现自己还真的是没有去注意同事的穿着的。
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情人老婆仔在我午餐后发了个即使短讯给我,问我是不是会在公司工作一整天?我问她是不是有什么事需要我回家?然后因为之间的情趣都是我一个人在搞而已(自讨没趣…),所以就加了一句问她是不是想我?今天老婆仔破天荒有情趣的回了我“是”,虽然知道她只是应酬骗我一下,但还是突然很有能量的开心了,呵呵!
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离开研究室后就马上回家,刚刚好赶上下一个会议,然后就这样又多了些工作,唉~
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都不知道敏感什么,回到家后就开始打喷嚏,鼻子眼睛开始痒,也开始流鼻水。真是的,公司太干净,家里太多灰尘?
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Did the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator <a href="https://www.16personalities.com/">(MBTI)</a> test slightly less than four years ago, for a virtual teambuilding.
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I was an Advocate (INFJ-A) <a href="https://paper-arrow.blogspot.com/2020/06/my-personality.html">then</a>, borderline on being intuitive (N) and assertive (A), as oppose to observant (S) and turbulent (T), respectively.
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Did another test today, prework for the icebreaker session of an upcoming company event.
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This time, I am the <a href="https://www.16personalities.com/isfj-personality">Defender</a> (ISFJ-A). Still on the fence for the intuitive versus observant, but skewed towards observant this time. Also still on the fence on being assertive versus turbulent.
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Prominently skewed on the other three: introverted (I), feeling (F), and judging (J). So I guess these three are my more distinctive personalities.
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The website still has my old test results, which shows I am indeed very consistent on the three indicators and on the fence on the other two.
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忘了是何时开始看韩国恋爱综艺节目,看了一出又会发现另一出,就自然而然的也看了。现在看着的是其中一个节目的第三季。
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情人老婆仔说是出演者在演戏,我相信或许有些出演者是为了出名,有些为了出演费,但也是有真的情感的。我就是会被这些情感牵动,就当我是缺爱吧…
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我就是那种希望世上相爱的人都可以在一起的人,所以看到相爱的情侣最终在一起就非常开心,但看到相爱又因为种种原因无法在一起的情侣时就非常难过。
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然后呢?
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没有自律,不懂得管理时间,言而无信。答应了没有做到,也不为自己的言行举止负责任。
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讲了又讲,重复又重复。仍旧我行我素,没有自我检讨,不思进取,没有改善提升。就是那样日复一日同样的得过且过,敷衍混日子。还会变本加厉。
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对工作的热忱和动力大大减少了。对没得喘息,连接不断,还常常过分的要求厌倦了。累了。
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开始有做不下去的感觉,但又还是需要一个人养家…
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所以然后呢?
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看完了一季韩国二零二三年的恋爱综艺节目,和它的后续。
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偏偏内向男太为其他出演者着想,知道其他男出演者都喜欢那女生,自己又不喜欢复杂错乱的情感和屋内情况(要一起生活一个月嘞),所以压抑自己的情感,令自己煎熬,也让甜美可爱女心酸委屈。
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明明互相喜欢,可以在一起的两个人,始终都没有在一起。男的自私一点的话,很多的痛苦煎熬就不会发生了。
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结果最后一个两天一夜的外出旅行中,连其他男出演者在知道甜美可爱女对内向男那么重的心意后,都开始为他铺路的情况下,太看别人眼色的内向男始终没有向甜美可爱女提出约会邀请,而是选择了他知道也是向着自己但没有其他男出演者追求的另一位女出演者。
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Took 2.5 days of annual leave, coupled with the 2 days replacement holidays, I got a total of 8.5 days of break for Chinese New Year.
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It's coming to an end, resuming work tomorrow.
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It has been peaceful and quiet in the house, after wifey and kids went to the in-laws', and with dad and I being the stay-in-room mind our own business kind of person.
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But I am severely hug-deprived. This is very unhealthy for me.
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What made it worse is that I am watching a Korean reality show about romance and relationship, and instead of the lovely jubbly sweet sweet feelings that draw me into watching this kind of shows, this particular season is downright saddening.
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This is when being an empathic person is not such a good thing, I feel the frustration, the hurt and the pain deeply. I know there can't be happy ending for all the cast members, but there is always one or a few who I am more aligned in values, principles and beliefs, who I would root for, who I hope their love would blossom.
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But alas, this season there are too many crisscrossed signals, missed signals, and even false signals. Really hate fake people with their misinformation. So what started as a hopeful sweet relationship got shattered, causing so much pain and hurt to the people involved. And to me, so I guess I am too emotionally involved.
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This is when I really need to hug wifey, but she is not here...
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So my break is ending, and it seems break is also the ending for the reality show. So sad.
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越老越迷信,这几年都会找一找开工吉日才决定农历新年休假几天,和几时开工。
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略懂八字基本知识后就知道这些开工吉日也是看是谁评估出来的,毕竟每个人重视的东西不同,每个人理解和分析都会有差异。
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所以我通常会找几份不同的人算出来的开工吉日,校对后才决定跟大多数统一的好日子。
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或许有一天,我会开始去理解,然后用自己的八字算出最适合自己的开工吉日吧?
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或许吧?但没有确定的完成期,毕竟买了的那几本有关八字的书籍,超过十年了都还没有看完…
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话说回来,今天是没有冲我生肖的开工吉日,吉时也是非常合适的时间,我如常的早上八点开工,认真的做了半天工。
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对我来说,开工吉日就应该是平时想要的工作日,而不是意思意思开了电脑发个邮件,那绝对不是我理想的工作日。
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一早同事朋友即兴开了个一对一的网上会仪,讨论我们一起同做的项目。除了那,今天没有任何的会议,所以我可以有效率的做热流模型。
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拿了半天假,毕竟今天真的是为了开工吉日才工作的,我农历新年的休假还没有完,下星期一我才“正式”复工。
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开工大吉啦!希望这一年都会顺顺利利的。
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Wifey and the kids are on their way to the in-laws'.
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Visiting the in-laws during Chinese New Year and stay for a few days is something we do annually, but this year I have opted out of celebrating Chinese New Year.
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To be honest, I don't really know the exact details of what to do and what not to do, mommi had always been the go to person for our enquiry on culture, custom and tradition stuff, but it's her passing last May that I am observing the no celebrating Chinese New Year now.
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Information online regarding this varies, from 100 days to 3 years, and various to do and not to do. I am not sure which to follow, and have decided to stay in and not involve in any merry or celebration stuff for the first 100 days, to opt out of celebrating the first Chinese New Year, and not wearing any merry colours for at least one year.
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The last few years before mommi's passing, I had been saturated with the sense of helplessness, seeing her deteriorated and unable to do anything about it... So I shall do whatever I can now.
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I don't think losing a parent is something we get over with, or something we will ever forget. It's probably just something we live with as best as we can.
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So more and more people started their leave these few days, and many meetings got cancelled.
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It's like finally I got the efficiency when I am working overtime at actual work hours, yay!
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Finally able to work meaningful duration without interruption at working hours instead of being a meeting engineer.
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I am a doer, not a talker.
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After working <strike>too long</strike> more than five years with the company, I am getting 20 days of annual leave every year.
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So that's 1.67 days added to my leave balance every month.
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The leave balance is capped at two times the annual leave amount, so for me the maximum I can have is 40 days.
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The 1.67 days is added to the balance on the first day of the month, anything above the maximum limit will be forfeited. In other words, anything in excess of the limit will be irrecoverably lost.
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For years I have watched this balance carefully, because to me, these days of paid annual leave are hard-earned through sweat and tears. Paid annual leave is in fact money, anything forfeited is actually a lost of money that could have been paid to us when we leave the company for good.
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But I slipped in January, I thought I had at least 1.67 days margin by the end of January, but I didn't. I only had 1.25 days margin, so I lost 0.42 days when the leave balance was updated on 1st of February.
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0.42 days burned, so sad. This is simply a waste. Feel so disappointed with myself.
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今天立春,甲辰(木龙)年的开始,祝大家龙年快乐!
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今天开始到明年立春前出生的宝宝就是属龙的啦。
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丧母后的第一个农历新年,守孝没有庆祝。妻子和孩子们会去娘家,这将是我第一次没有在农历新年去娘家拜年,希望可以理解。
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农历新年几天假我应该会看下八字的书,毕竟要准备下才能再次给同事分享。还是觉得怪怪的,分享八字知识这事…
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希望甲辰年的到来可以帮我转下最近很糟糕的运啦。我也只能期盼。
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命苦,我认。
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Last delivery of Chinese New Year cookies and cakes order completed today.
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That's another tick off the task list.
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Thanks for the orders, friends and colleagues. Hope you enjoy the cookies and cakes.
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And wish you all a happy Chinese New Year.
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I won't be celebrating Chinese New Year this year, observing the custom of parent passed away within the past year.
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Probably not much different given how antisocial I have become, but anyway, I will definitely not be paying anybody a visit during Chinese New Year this year.
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It's just something I need to do, regardless of what others think.
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很废的一个月,万事不顺。真是的。
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第四版模型里那一个0.3毫米的差误,作废了十二月尾开始和整个一月跑过的四十多个模拟。我的天啊~
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是我自己的失误,浪费了自己那么多的心血和时间,真的很沮丧…
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对自己太失望了,整个人都不好了。
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二零二四年第一个月真的是太残酷无奈了。终于都过去了,不送,请滚远远去!
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二月你就不要也是那副衰样,可好?
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I am evil, I have never denied that.
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In fact, I am proud to admit that, and to make sure people know that when they somehow have the notion that I am a nice person.
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Being nice is overrated, rather be evil really. To the mass majority anyway.
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Being perceived as evil sets the right expectation. This is how I like it.
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So ya, my dear colleague, I totally get you, I truly understand what you are feeling and going through, but I feel devilishly gleeful. Not because of your suffering, for I sincerely wish you well.
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It's just all so very familiar for me that I find it amusing and somewhat funny, not maliciously, more like helplessly, a mirroring self-deprecatory.
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And ya, it's nice to have a company in miseryville. =P
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During which there were two public holidays, the New Year's day and Thaipusam. I took a day off during this period, so it's a total of 17 working days time period for me.
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The longest stretch of continuous working overtime in these four weeks is 7 days in a roll. If I worked overtime again tomorrow it will become 8 days in a roll...
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Ya... work/life balance is just a myth. A glorified slogan so those in charge can feel good about themselves.
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Yes, strive for work/life balance please, but no, I don't care that it's public holiday or that you are going to be on leave, give me the results in two days time.
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Oxymoronic hypocrites.
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花了几周准备的散热方案,大老板详情不问就拒绝了。
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系统最终的散热能力全在细节里,我的优化和改善,全都是细节的调整。偏偏老板们、管理们,总是只看高层,和随空抓来个散热能力目标。
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散热工程师去解决吧,仿佛物理极限是可以随心改变那样…
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唉,真的很无语。
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星期三把最新的模拟数据报告上去后,也提供了根据数据资料推理出来的优化方向。项目管理问我几时可以给新的模拟数据的报告,我说下个星期二。星期一改模型和让它通宵计算,一切顺利星期二会有数据。
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项目管理说不行,太迟了,星期五就要数据。我说星期四是公假,星期五我休假。项目管理重复,星期五要数据。
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真的,如果我已经决定离开那部门的话,我一定会把这事吵到人事部去的。
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但我没有,毕竟喜欢现在的工作,而且问题不是工,是那些人。累人的人类。
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所以公假也好,休假也好,我都是在加时工作。而且因为不能浪费不足的电脑资源,要确保人睡觉时电脑还是在工作,所以撑到凌晨两点都还是需要把新的模拟设好去计算了才可以下班。
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真的好累。心里很不平衡。
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换了部门这么多年,第一次有了做不下去的念头。
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